Wedding Rules that You Can Break

Yes, it's true there are a lot of traditions when it comes to weddings, but things have changed too. There are many wedding rules that you can break.

1. The bride's parents pay for the wedding.
Maybe your mom and dad want to pay for every single thing, but, unlike in the past where the bride's family was expected to foot the whole bill, they're in no way obligated to now. Grooms' parents and the couples themselves chip in nearly as often as brides' parents do. It just depends on your family's situation.

2. You must wear a long, white gown.
Sure, most brides go the long white or ivory route, but for your wedding day attire, anything goes: from a retro short dress to a silver, slinky sheath to a black pantsuit. As long as you feel fabulous in your outfit, it can be any color or style. You can even skip the veil. If you'd prefer that your look pleases the crowd but aren't willing to go totally traditional, try working in a hint of color via a dress sash, your shoes, jewelry or a hair accessory or opting for a tea-length dress.

3. The first time you see your groom on your wedding day should be at your ceremony.
You can spend every minute with your groom before the ceremony.In fact, many couples who decided to wait until the ceremony to see each other would've preferred to have the inevitably emotional experience in private rather than in front of all of their guests. Photographers are happy to capture the moment you first see each other before the ceremony, so take photos then.